oh man, after reading first chapter, i was really hope there will be a good reason to their fight so i'am kinda disappointed now. also uke is being really selfish and stupid. it's not his place to decide for someone else's happiness.
imo, altho he was being pretty selfish but i feel like he's insecure about these kinds of things and to me that's what makes him human haha he just gotta learn to trust shizuku more
i on the other hand, disagrees a little with the "uke being selfish" as you said.. stupid, yeah but not really selfish..
when i'm in a relationship, i always consider my partner's feelings.. in every decision or every action i make, i always think if it will make him happy or sad.. i naturally only want what's best for my partner... it's like an instinct to protect his interest and gives him nothing but the best..
so i think, the uke here just did what he thought was the best.. it was a great opportunity for his lover to find a diff. path. so it can be called idiotic decision made becoz of over thinking things and his own insecurity.. he was far too considerate that he missed what's really needed to be considered.. it's very clear that the whole thing was very painful for him,too..so absolutely not selfish..it was the opposite, even :)
i on the other hand, disagrees a little with the "uke being selfish" as you said.. stupid, yeah but not really selfish.. when i'm in a relationship, i always consider my partner's feelings.. in every decision o... minami-chan
i agree. of course there is nothing wrong with consider your partner's feelings or wish the best for them. they are perfectly normal supportive acts.
what's being selfish and not healty is to claim to know exacly what other person's feelings are, without a good reason. to claim to know of what's best for other person or to dictate and decide which way they should feel in place of them. those are the problem and in fact they are the opposite of being considerate. this is what i believe is the case of the uke and that's why i see him as selfish.
NOT SELFISH..with that ending.. we all know his reason for being so caught up with the idea of robbing his partner of happiness from having a "family".. he didn't have a complete one.. so he wanted his lover to have one(or a choice to make one) especially if the seme is so fascinated with kids..like that..
oh man, after reading first chapter, i was really hope there will be a good reason to their fight so i'am kinda disappointed now. also uke is being really selfish and stupid. it's not his place to decide for someone else's happiness.
imo, altho he was being pretty selfish but i feel like he's insecure about these kinds of things and to me that's what makes him human haha
he just gotta learn to trust shizuku more
i on the other hand, disagrees a little with the "uke being selfish" as you said.. stupid, yeah but not really selfish..
when i'm in a relationship, i always consider my partner's feelings.. in every decision or every action i make, i always think if it will make him happy or sad.. i naturally only want what's best for my partner...
it's like an instinct to protect his interest and gives him nothing but the best..
so i think, the uke here just did what he thought was the best.. it was a great opportunity for his lover to find a diff. path. so it can be called idiotic decision made becoz of over thinking things and his own insecurity.. he was far too considerate that he missed what's really needed to be considered.. it's very clear that the whole thing was very painful for him,too..so absolutely not selfish..it was the opposite, even :)
i agree. of course there is nothing wrong with consider your partner's feelings or wish the best for them. they are perfectly normal supportive acts.
what's being selfish and not healty is to claim to know exacly what other person's feelings are, without a good reason. to claim to know of what's best for other person or to dictate and decide which way they should feel in place of them. those are the problem and in fact they are the opposite of being considerate. this is what i believe is the case of the uke and that's why i see him as selfish.
NOT SELFISH..with that ending.. we all know his reason for being so caught up with the idea of robbing his partner of happiness from having a "family".. he didn't have a complete one.. so he wanted his lover to have one(or a choice to make one) especially if the seme is so fascinated with kids..like that..