You can't stop your friend's feelings. You can only change your own. And if you try to force the issue, you will only alienate yourself from them and cause bad feelings between you two. State to your friend, that you too like this guy and have for a while, just to remind her, and then let the issue go. It's then up to her if she wants to value her feelings for you over a crush that just started.
And if you like the guy, tell him. That's the best way to get him to "look your way". Waiting for for "sempai to notice you" is a good way to not get a boyfriend. If you don't want to be so blunt about it, let one of his friends know that your are interested in him. This could backfire splendidly, however, so my original advice stands. Don't worry about the other girl, be brave, and go for it.
Thank you! Ill try to go with your advice:)
I agree and don't.
I agree about the friend part but i thnk she should probably make sure the guys knows she exists before just blurts out she likes him.
You should talk to the guy. make sure he knows your name. have a conversation. It's probably scary cause you have no friends in common but maybe you and a friend could sit near his group at lunch? learn what he likes try and join in a conversation? you know, "hey i'm XXX and this is OOO can we sit here with you guys?" "oh you guys like anime? we like anime too. Do you go to any conventions?" etc.
Hmmm... you're probably right cri.
If "problem" can enter into his circle, she'll probably get a better response than if he sees her as a vague acquaintance.
Thanks for the advice guys :)
Hey guys i kinda have this problem and i want you to give me some advic3e, its not related to yaoi. Okay so ive had this crush on this guy forever, and i havent had a class with him in like two years... I dont even think he remembers me, but my friends then introduces me to another friends and it turns out that friend also likes him, but just started to because he is cute. How to make her stop liking him without sounding mean? (i really like her as a friend and i dont really want to loose her, but she knew i liked him when she started...) And how do i make him "look" my way without actually telling him that i like him. We dont have any of the same friends as me and he is getting pretty popular... Should i give up on him? I really like him :(