wow, you sound really closed minded. if you really think like that then you probably shouldn't get with anyone that is not a virgin because if you have sex with someone who is not then you are having sex with not just the partners they have been with but also the partner of the partners they have been with, of course this is based on your way of thinking and just so you know if you only have sex virgins and you meet one that think the way you do you would be the one consider as a "slut".
how many partners are needed for someone to be considered a slut? how many partners have you had? If you were to have many failed relationships, would you have to consider yourself a slut?
You do know that about half of all REAL gay relationships tend to be open ones? And that most of those 50% are perfectly happy with such an arrangement?
Who cares if he is a slut, only knows a slut! 'You are what you say'
Well,my friend was having about 50 lovers before finding the one she truly cherishes and she's married now.
I don't call her a slut,she was happy in her relationships though there were a few violent lovers but it's her life. I have no reason to judge her.
I think I get what you are saying. There's a difference between having multiple sex partners all at once and having multiple lovers over time. I'd be less incline to pursue a relationship with someone who currently has multiple sex partners in hopes that he will eventually find me as "the one." But I wouldn't care if someone had 50 lovers before me, as long as I wasn't the 51th one on the same rotation.
Overall it was ok, I guess. The friends with benefits bit just reminds me why I would never get with a former slut, it's too disgusting to think the many different partners he'd been with. Yuck.